I read a recent article about two German universities that
conducted a joint study of Facebook (a report titled Envy on Facebook: A Hidden Threat To Users' Life Satisfaction?) which
produced some very interesting conclusions.
And what are those conclusions, you might be asking?
The study found that the world's largest social network with
over one billion users has provided a huge platform for comparisons of all
kinds resulting in rampant envy. The researchers found that one in three Facebook
users felt more dissatisfied with their lives after browsing the site. And
apparently those who normally lurk without contributing were affected the most.
Their negative Facebook experience with envy left them
feeling lonely, frustrated, or angry resulting in some of them leaving Facebook
or, at the least, drastically reducing their use. This conclusion contributed
to speculation that Facebook might be reaching a saturation point in some
markets.
Researchers found that vacation photos were the largest
cause of resentment, comprising more than half of the envy incidents. Social
interaction was the second largest cause of envy, resulting from how many
birthday greetings a friend received or how many Likes or comments were attached to photos or postings.
They found that users in their mid 30s were most likely to
envy family happiness. Men were shown to post more self-promotional items to
let everyone know about their accomplishments while women were more apt to
stress their good looks and social lives.
The researchers said their study respondents were German but
they expected the findings to apply internationally since envy is a universal
feeling.
Have any of you ever had a twinge of envy when seeing
vacation photos posted, read about work accomplishments, or seen the lifestyle
portrayed by those on your Facebook Friends
list? Wishing you could travel to those places? Or afford one of those luxury
cars? Live in those elaborate surroundings? Or, for those Friends that you don't really know personally, have you ever
wondered if everything they post is true?
I can say, in all honesty, that I've been envious of other
people's lives (sometimes material things and at other times personal
interactions). But I have had people tell me they envy some of the things I've
done and accomplished, both of my long term careers over the years and
personally—things that I'm seeing from a different perspective. They are
outside looking in while I'm inside the reality looking out.
So…to put it in writer's terminology—it's Point Of View!
2 comments:
I have a love/hate relationship with FB. I'm on there
only b/c of my books. I have a rich life I create
for myself every day, so I guess I don't envy
anyone on FB. If you're not putting in enough
effort to create a happy life, I guess it could be
tempting to envy someone on FB. But believe me,
I've been around the block a time or two, long enough to know that it is never all good or all bad, thank God.
Mary Kennedy Eastham, Author,
The Shadow of a Dog I Can't Forget &
Squinting Over Water - Stories
Mary: As writers, we don't need social media to create interesting and/or envy producing lives and lifestyles. We do it every day for a living. :)
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