Saturday, March 28, 2020

7 Signs Your House Could Be Haunted

I recently came across an article sharing these signs that suggest your home may have visitors from beyond the grave. It first caught my attention because I have a friend who is involved in 'ghost hunter' activities.

1)  Mysterious sights and sounds
Clearly we have a fascination with haunted houses in this country as evidenced by the numerous cable television series exploring this topic. There are professional ghost hunters who believe most of the signs indicating a haunting aren't so scary. It's suggested that they are simply trying to send a message, that the entities aren't evil—only misunderstood. It's believed that a lot of the classic signs that people run into are mysterious noises that seem to come from places they can't locate, a lot of bumping and scratching on walls, seeing full-bodied apparitions, and things moving from place to place when no one has touched them. Of course, anyone who has seen a horror movie or a ghost show probably already knows this. What you might not know, however, is that what you call 'a haunting' may not be the real thing. There are 'experts' in the field who have been called to houses where the causes of these phenomena have actually been carbon monoxide poisoning which caused people to hallucinate. Mold, too, can cause the same reaction. For houses with legitimate ghosts, there are more telling signs that your house is haunted.

2)  Ectoplasm
Fact: Ectoplasm is a substance that still mystifies even the most seasoned paranormal experts. Historically, it has been reported to show up during seances through a spiritual medium. One paranormal investigator experienced the phenomenon in real haunted houses. The family living in the house reported that things moved on their own. While he was at the house he actually had a strange, viscous fluid show up and drip down my arm from out of nowhere. The family living there claimed that happened all the time. It was a very strange kind of off-white, almost like a raw egg kind of fluid. Ectoplasm is not often seen or experienced at your run-of-the-mill haunted house, but paranormal experts see it as a sign of certainty that there is a paranormal presence at work.

3)  Feeling watched
Though the sensation of being watched isn't a proven factor, people who live in genuine haunted houses do report it a lot. Many believe in a kind of sixth sense. Basically, you might be in a house with a really bad vibe—cold chills move throughout the room along with the feeling of being watched. Sometimes whispers, or being awoken in the middle of the night because of the feeling that somebody's standing there. Whether there is a normal explanation for this sensation or a paranormal one is hard to know for sure, but it's definitely a contributing factor for nearly any house that is afflicted by spirits.

4)  Inexplicable movement
Objects don't move on their own—unless you live in an old drafty house where strong winds make doors open and close. Otherwise, there has to be some kind of force applied to get it to move. That's why when you see things flying around your house without visible cause, you can be pretty sure that there is something—or someone—other than you in your house. Soaring objects are another staple of horror movies, but inexplicable movement can be even more sinister than that.

5)  Personality change
When we think about possession, our minds immediately go to demons…demons…demons. More often than not, demonic possession and even a demonic presence is not behind whatever it is you're experiencing. A 'normal' ghost can possess you too. The tip-off is if someone you know is acting extremely strange all of a sudden. If you start to notice someone has taken on a pretty distinct personality change, that can be a sign of possession.

6)  Previous homeowners
If you suspect you might have a haunted house on your hands, you should probably dig into the history of your property. If you're experiencing things you can't explain, doing research might help clear it up. Hopefully, once you know what happened or what you're dealing with, you can ease the haunting. However, some places can't be cleared of their histories.

7)  Physical and emotional disorientation
A haunting can have a terrible effect on your mood and even your physical condition. It can leave you feeling angry or weak.

The three types of hauntings
Many experts sort hauntings into three categories: intelligent, residual, and intentional. There's the classic haunting which is an intelligent haunting. The spirit seems to interact very intelligently with people. And then the other common one people run into a lot is a residual haunting. With that, it just kind of plays over and over and over. It doesn't ever really acknowledge that people live in the house. It just is. It just happens. Sometimes it's because a traumatizing event happened on a particular date. There's no intelligence there, so there's really nothing you can do about it. Lastly, an intentional haunting is actually more about living, breathing humans than ghosts. It really comes from people who have put so much energy and intention into the belief that their house or object is haunted that they've ended up actually manifesting a haunting. Think of kids who follow urban legends and routinely go visit the place of the supposed haunting. They feed the story so much that they actually open the place up to paranormal activity.

What to do if your house is haunted
Experts say that the best way to deal with a haunting is to make a firm statement. Talk to the presence in your home and let it know what your intentions are. Most people who discover that their house is haunted can live peacefully with whatever spirits are there. If it's something that really, genuinely bothers you, say something as simple as 'You need to leave.' Finally, if you try to use sage, just be cautious and use it the right way. It's so cleansing it almost creates a vacuum. It's like dusting your whole house then leaving your doors and windows open in a sandstorm.
 So next time you think something in your space is off, keep in mind these telltale signs that your house is haunted.

10 comments:

Karen Hulene Bartell said...

Spooky post! Best of luck with your Harlequin reissues!

Kathleen Buckley said...

Congratulations on your reissues. I think there may be another, unmentioned kind of haunting, however: the one occurrence haunting. When a friend and I moved into our 1955-vintage house which was still in the process of being worked on (laying ceramic tile in part of the house, and wood plank floors in the rest, among other things), we think we had a visit from the long-time owner in the middle of the night. My friend's oldest stepdaughter, a mature, sensible woman who had worked in the trades, was staying with us to help with the project. She woke in the night to the sound of the cats (who had been confined to another bedroom) making a commotion which suddenly ceased. She assumed I'd got up and settled the cats down. I did not hear that but I did hear and sense the kitchen light being turned on (I was sleeping in a room adjoining the kitchen). I thought my housemate or her stepdaughter had risen to get a glass of water or a midnight snack. As the result of a casual comment at breakfast, we discovered we were both wrong. I had not visited the cats in the night, and neither of my friends had gone to the kitchen. The only explanation seemed to be that the man who had owned the house for the approximately 50 years before we bought it had come back to see what we were doing to it. He must have approved; we had no subsequent visits.

CB Clark said...

Intriguing Post. I have to say that I hope my house isn't haunted. That would be very unsettling. Thanks for sharing. Congrats on all the reissues.

D. V. Stone said...

We were playing the game "Things". The question came up Things that tell you your house is haunted. My brilliant husband answered
The sign on the front lawn -Haunted House-
Great post
D.V.

Lucy K. said...

I love haunted house stories and am working on two. My sister was actually quite certain her house was haunted. I never saw any sign of it, but her family has plenty of stories to tell. Thanks for an interesting post.

Shawna Delacorte said...

Karen: The 'spooky' concept had me considering Halloween for this post, but true haunted doesn't have a season or holiday.

Thanks for your comment.

Shawna Delacorte said...

Kathleen: I think it's highly possible that the house's original owner could have come for 'a visit' to make sure the new residents would take care of the property.

Thanks for your comment.

Shawna Delacorte said...

CB: I would find it unsettling to have spirits roaming around inside my house, even if they were benevolent rather than threatening.

Thanks for your comment.

Shawna Delacorte said...

D.V.: LOL...love your husband's means of determining if the house is haunted. The sign would definitely be a serious clue.

Thanks for your comment.

Shawna Delacorte said...

Lucy: Some people seem to be much more sensitive to paranormal type things than others. I have a friend whose husband was very sensitive to activity but she never heard/saw/felt anything connected to paranormal.

Thanks for your comment.